Parenting Time

Helping Parents Create Parenting Time Arrangements That Work

When parents separate or divorce, one of the most important questions becomes how children will continue to spend meaningful time with both parents. A well-designed parenting schedule provides children with consistency, reduces uncertainty, and helps parents establish clear expectations moving forward.

At The Law Office of Robert H. Siegel, we help parents throughout New Jersey develop parenting time arrangements that support healthy parent-child relationships while addressing the practical realities of modern family life. Whether you are creating an initial parenting plan, modifying an existing schedule, or resolving a dispute, we provide experienced legal guidance focused on achieving practical, child-centered solutions.

What Is Parenting Time?

Parenting time—sometimes referred to as visitation—establishes the schedule for when a child spends time with each parent.

Although closely related to child custody, parenting time addresses a different aspect of parenting after separation or divorce. Custody generally concerns legal decision-making and residential arrangements, while parenting time focuses on the day-to-day schedule that allows children to maintain meaningful relationships with both parents.

Every family’s circumstances are different, and parenting schedules should reflect the needs of both the child and the parents.

Developing a Parenting Schedule

A successful parenting schedule provides predictability while allowing enough flexibility to accommodate changing circumstances.

Depending on the family’s needs, a parenting plan may address:

  • Weekday parenting time
  • Weekend schedules
  • Overnight parenting
  • Holidays
  • School vacations
  • Summer schedules
  • Birthdays and special occasions
  • Transportation responsibilities
  • Telephone and video communication
  • Exchange locations
  • Procedures for schedule changes


The more clearly these issues are addressed, the less likely misunderstandings and future disputes become.

Parenting Plans Built Around the Child

Every child has unique needs based on age, personality, school schedule, extracurricular activities, and family relationships.

When helping parents develop parenting schedules, our office considers factors such as:

  • The child’s developmental needs
  • School commitments
  • Parents’ work schedules
  • Distance between households
  • Medical considerations
  • Extracurricular activities
  • Existing family routines
  • Transportation logistics


Rather than relying on rigid formulas, we work with parents to create practical arrangements that promote stability and minimize disruption.

Resolving Parenting Time Disputes

Although many parents cooperate successfully, disagreements sometimes arise regarding parenting schedules.

Common issues include:

  • Missed parenting time
  • Late exchanges
  • Holiday scheduling
  • Transportation disputes
  • Communication problems
  • Changes in work schedules
  • Vacation conflicts
  • Interference with parenting time


Addressing these issues promptly often helps prevent small disagreements from becoming larger legal disputes.

Whenever appropriate, we encourage constructive communication and negotiated solutions before litigation becomes necessary.

Parenting Time Modifications

Children’s lives naturally change over time.

A schedule that worked when a child was in preschool may no longer be appropriate during middle school or high school. Likewise, parents’ employment, living arrangements, and family circumstances often evolve after divorce.

Parents may seek to modify parenting arrangements because of:

  • Changes in employment
  • Relocation
  • School schedules
  • Medical issues
  • Increased extracurricular activities
  • Significant changes affecting the child
  • Changes in family circumstances


Our office helps parents evaluate whether modification may be appropriate and represents clients throughout the modification process when necessary.

Mediation and Parenting Issues

Many parenting disputes can be resolved through mediation.

Attorney Robert H. Siegel’s experience as a Court-Appointed Divorce Mediator provides valuable perspective when helping parents develop parenting schedules that reflect their family’s specific needs.

Mediation often allows parents to:

  • Improve communication
  • Create customized parenting plans
  • Reduce conflict
  • Maintain greater control over decisions
  • Preserve healthier co-parenting relationships


When agreement cannot be reached, our office is fully prepared to advocate for our clients in court.

Enforcement of Parenting Time Orders

Existing parenting orders should be followed unless they are modified by agreement or court order.

When one parent repeatedly fails to comply with an established parenting schedule, legal action may become necessary to enforce the court’s order.

Our office assists clients with matters involving:

  • Enforcement applications
  • Parenting schedule disputes
  • Repeated violations of court orders
  • Requests for clarification
  • Modification requests


Protecting meaningful parent-child relationships remains the focus of every enforcement matter we handle.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is parenting time the same as custody?

No. Custody generally addresses legal decision-making and residential arrangements, while parenting time establishes when children spend time with each parent.

Yes. Parenting schedules may be modified when circumstances change significantly and modification serves the child’s best interests.

Depending on the circumstances, legal remedies may be available to enforce an existing court order.

Not necessarily. Every parenting arrangement should reflect the unique needs of the child and the family’s circumstances.

Helping Families Build Healthy Parenting Relationships

Successful parenting arrangements are built on thoughtful planning, clear communication, and a shared commitment to supporting children through family transitions.

Whether you are negotiating your first parenting schedule or seeking to resolve a post-divorce parenting dispute, Attorney Robert H. Siegel provides experienced legal guidance designed to help parents protect their relationships with their children while promoting long-term family stability.

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